Who is Q?

Well Q is ME….. I may not look like Q in RL (that's right I don't have blonde hair and blue eyes) but in all other respects I am me, I don’t pretend, I don’t put on an act, I don’t bullshit.

Yes I like helping people, it’s what I do, always have can’t change that.

I like finding out how things work, so I pick up bits and pieces of information around the place and what I learn I am more than happy to share with others.

I like building when the mood takes me, I am not the greatest builder in SL but enjoy it nevertheless.

I am fiercely loyal to my friends and love them all and am and always will be there for them.

I try to be positive most of the time but I am human, like everyone else I have my bad days, just unlike a lot of people, except for rare occasions, only the people closest to me (namely Amber and Della) will know that as I don’t believe in coming in world to bitch and whine and moan and go “oh woe is me”…. Others can but I won’t. My RL is far from perfect but I am not in SL to go on about that, I am in SL to experience what SL has and take me away from RL.

I like people who know how to enjoy life and make the most of it, and I have found a great group of people in SL who do just that, I love to laugh and it is something I do a lot of in world. Love verbal banter and stimulating conversations… yes people you can have a “discussion” and have an “opinion” without it being an argument and friends can have differing opinions and still be friends, nor do they have to like everything you do, because it would be a boring world if they did.

What I have learnt?? Well I have learnt that I am now more open to new experiences than I thought I was and a heap of other stuff about me which quite frankly am not going to share here. And that is also it is the same for me in SL as it is in RL…. I don’t share a lot about “me”… so writing this little piece is a total rarity for me.

I have learnt that the majority of males make better friends than they do partners because I will not compromise who I am for them, I will not become a simpering fool to pander to their ego.

In SL as in RL I don’t give easily of myself but when I do I give a lot be it as a friend or a partner. I have learnt that IF I ever go the SL relationship road again, I want someone to explore with, share experiences with, someone who can be as honest with me as I am with them, not someone who pretends to care about me because for a time I make them feel good about themselves, but someone who actually cares about what I think and feel as much as I care about what they think and feel. Someone who is confident enough about who they are as a person not to need me to be less than I am to make them feel better.

I have also discovered that in SL I am totally obsessed with symmetry and balance, am totally addicted to textures, I love decorating, organising things and okay sometimes enjoy being just a little bit bossy (no laughing people!!!).

What I have found in SL? Well I have found some of the best people around, truly genuine fun loving people and most of them spend a lot of time at the Cage. I have also found a few select people who actually “know” me not just think they do and those people know who they are.

Ugh have I really raved on about me so much….. sorry… but you don’t have to read if it if you don’t want to, although if you have gotten this far you already have...LMAO!!!!

Ciao for now.

Quilla